Emotional Fulfillment - The Key to Charming Others

We all yearn for those golden relationships with those golden people. Perhaps something looks as shiny as gold but isn't really golden. Maybe what we think is gold turns out something else. Or maybe it is the real gold, but we don't get it. We somehow, mess it up.

Throughout time, humans have formed numerous types of relationships with others; from great ones like friend-ships, love-ships to disastrous ones like incest and other abnormal relation-ships. Whether right or wrong, normal or abnormal, gratifying or not, humans have always formed connections with others. The foundation of these connections was and will always be "The need for Emotional Gratification."

That need is the base of every relationship that exists on our planet. Friendships perhaps, are based on the need of having supportive companions that share common goals or interests. Romantic relationships may be based on the need of having a soul mate and being desired by the other sex. Business relationships could be based on the need of progressing in one's career or improving one's wealth. The list can keep going on but no matter what the relationship is, it exists because of a certain need for emotional gratification. Romantic relationships, commonly known as Dating are no exception. Dating is simply the act of seeing someone who we feel attracted to on a different level and start to bond with, in a unique way.

The need for connection and emotional gratification is the core of all dating happenings between a man and woman. Have you ever thought about why you are attracted to someone? Did you ask yourself why you like or not like this person? What does this man or woman, consciously or unconsciously do, that makes others attracted to them? Think it over again. What makes you feel more attracted to someone? What makes them attracted to you? You would be surprised to know that many people seldom ask themselves any of these simple questions.

In reality, these simple questions have within them the answers and guidance to all the knowledge you need to become a great friend, companion, lover, business partner and a master at human relations. In fact, you can pause reading right now and walk away with those empowering questions and yet notice a shift in your perception. See, anything great in life, starts with a question and a demand for an answer. When you let your creative and inquisitive mind on the move, you will come to many truths in life. That is the spirit of the natural way of personal charm.

When it comes down to being charming to the opposite sex, it is the easiest and most enjoyable thing in the world. The problem is that men and women seldom view it that way. The truth is that if you are a man who is having trouble with charming women then you are having trouble in your general personal charm and the same equally applies to women. Most of the time, the trouble is not coming from a lack of skill or bad looks, or anything else your mind will toss at you. It is because of the way your mind operates. It is only because of certain things going on inside your head. The problem is that most people aren't aware of that. Instead, some men try to learn cheesy pickup lines or make more money to charm women. On the other side, women go north and south, to get that stunning dress that will make all men run after her. It sounds comical but sad at the same time.

To charm others, one needs to practice the skill of stimulating the right emotions in himself (herself) and others. Emotions, simply put are the key and only key to how attraction works in relation-ships. Attraction is when someone or a group of people feel more inclined to become part of each other's world. It is when we feel that we want to belong to someone or when we emotionally relate to someone in an exceptional way. Being aware of the fact that emotions are our driving forces, give us various insights on how to charm others and get what our hearts desire. It doesn't end here however. This truth opens to us the gateway to endless ways of charming others. If others behaviors are shaped by their own emotional systems and if our actions can, to a degree, influence their emotional systems then we can influence their behavior around us. We can let them enter our worlds. We can charm them.